a) Come to me and give me proof she isn't a hacker.
b) Tell me nicely instead of cussing her head off.
When you use nice words people will respond back nicely. True word and word. Honestly, do you need somebody "else" to tell me that you're safe and not give me through and through proof? References..? More than one? Please come to me if you've got proof.
And now somebody sent me this.. anonymous, of course, because maybe another one will come to them and threaten them? Honestly? IF YOU are SAFE, then, you wouldn't have to go to these measures. Hopefully everybody has learned something from this controversy.